Mental quotient, moral quotient, ambition quotient, intelligence quotient, emotional quotient, inverse quotient, understanding quotient, financial quotient and health quotient.

  If you want to succeed, you should start with the training of your psychological quality. Most of the time, the original difference of each of us is not big. The biggest difference lies in the psychological quality cultivated from childhood. If you want to do better than others, before changing your way of action, you should change your way of thinking, establish nine kinds of "wisdom" and make your life more successful.

1、 "Heart business" is also called "mentality".
It is the ability to maintain people's mental health and maintain good mental condition. It is the comprehensive expression of people's inner activities, thinking mode, emotion and will. The so-called "positive mentality" is also a "winning" character. When choosing the direction and quality of life, it usually shows self-confidence and happiness. It can adapt to the environment and achieve "getting water like fish". It will bring people health, success and wealth, and is the foundation of success in life. But the negative mentality person is often the person who is inferior and annoyed. Because of the character of "seeking defeat", it is bound to be pessimistic and disappointed with the reality and the future, even to take the destruction of themselves.
The major difference between the successful and the loser lies in the difference of the mind and energy, namely the difference of concept, emotion, will, attitude and habit, which is the source of the life's bitterness and success.
2、 "Moral business" is a person's moral quality.
As the saying goes, "small wins in wisdom, big wins in virtue", true winners: their moral cultivation generally reaches a high level.
In reality. Many people fail: not their failure in doing things, but their failure to be human, moral failure. All work and career achievements are ultimately due to their success as a human being.
Noble morality must form noble character, and it will bring them: noble cause and noble destiny. Therefore, we must regulate their own behavior with noble morality, so as to get the joy of life and the wonderful life.
3、 "Zhi Shang" is the ability to establish the ambition and goal of life.
To succeed, one must have the idea of success first, so that the strong desire for success permeates the subconscious of human beings《 Cao Cao in the romance of the Three Kingdoms once said: "the hero of a husband has a great ambition, a good plan on his stomach, a chance to cover the universe and to huff and puff the earth's will.". I think this is probably to say: to be a hero, there must be ambition and good intentions. First, we should have ambition, ambition is the decisive factor of achievement and life is also great because of ideal.
Small ambition is small, big ambition is great. The development law and operation procedure of life are: Ambition - goal - Dream desire character attitude habit destiny. The ambition and goal are the important factors that determine people's fate. Many people fail not because of their lack of talent, but because of their ambition and goals, maybe it is the saying "high or low" it is.
Harvard University has followed 300 graduates and found that only 15 have clear aspirations and goals. Twenty years later, the 15 had more than 285 people in total. Churchill said: "there are three secrets to my success: first, never give up; Second, never give up; The third is never, never, never give up. " How to achieve perseverance in pursuit of your own ideals: I think it is an important sign of measuring the level of "Zhishang".
4、 "Intelligence" is the level of human intelligence development.
IQ = wisdom age ÷ exact age × 100。 If the age of intelligence is equal to the age of actual foot, the IQ is 100, which is of medium intelligence level. IQ below 80 and over 120 are measures of distinguishing between Stupidity and intelligence. This is a concept proposed by a psychologist in the United States, Timon et al. More than a hundred years ago. William, another psychologist in the United States. James thinks: "a healthy person has only 10% of his inherent ability in his life."; Others think it's only about 4 percent. So, the human brain is like a sleeping giant.
The development forms of human brain can be divided into family development, social development and self-development. The main reason for the great difference in talent growth is self-development. That is to say, we should form the will, enthusiasm, method and good habit of self-development: only by making our own "IQ" index (potential) play a good level.
5、 EQ is the ability to understand and manage one's emotions and deal with interpersonal relationships.
EQ includes five basic contents:
1. To know your emotions and to be self-confident;
2. Manage your emotions, that is, how to adjust and control emotions;
3. Self motivation, that is, how to set their emotional goals, always maintain the passion of "win not arrogant, failure is inappropriate";
4. Empathy, that is, how to understand the feelings of others, to understand the feelings of others, to achieve harmonious relationship with others;
5. Interpersonal relationship management, that is, how to use the ability and skills of the knowledge to deal with interpersonal relationship. It's just how to be a person.
Interpersonal relationship is an important factor in the success or failure of life. People with high EQ, who see and love, can always get the support and support of the public, which is conducive to their success. Interpersonal relationship is also an important resource in people's life. Its operation rule is: more relationships - more friends, more information, more opportunities and more wealth, thus forming "Matthew effect", which is sometimes more important than knowledge and money. What is called "high friends" reflects: "life is not only the red of the close, the dark of the close, but also the big and the small near" (Wang Dingjun's words). Especially: in the process of "near big", knowledge and ability and values of life can be "transplanted", which is an important factor for success. It covers the self-control, enthusiasm, perseverance, self-driving force and potential development of human beings. The key factor to form their own quality is the basic condition for entrepreneurs to succeed.
High EQ performance
1. No complaints, no criticism
High EQ people do not criticize, blame others, do not complain, do not complain. In fact, complaints and accusations are bad emotions, they can infect. High EQ people only do meaningful things, not meaningless.
2. Passion and passion
People with high EQ are enthusiastic and passionate about life, work and feelings. Mobilize your positive emotions and keep good emotions with you every day. Don't let bad emotions affect life and work.
3. Tolerance and tolerance
The high EQ people are tolerant, broad-minded, how big the heart is, how big the horizon is, how big your stage is. People with high EQ are not fussy and have a tolerant and tolerant heart.
4. Communication and communication
High EQ people are good at communication, good at communication, and honest treatment, sincere and polite. Communication and exchange is a kind of skill, which needs to be learned and summarized in practice.
5. Praise others more
High EQ people are good at praising others, which is sincere from the heart. Those who see the advantages of others will make progress faster. Those who always pick on the disadvantages of others will be complacent and regressive.
6. Keep in a good mood
High EQ people keep a good mood every day, get up every morning, give themselves a smile, and encourage themselves, tell themselves that they are the best, tell themselves that they are the best, and that friends around them like themselves.
7. Good habits to listen
People with high EQ are good at listening, listening to others' words, listening carefully to what others say, listening to more and more, rather than their own waves. Listening is the premise of better communication, and listening is the best communication between people.
8. Responsible
People with high EQ dare to bear, do not shirk responsibility, meet problems, analyze problems and solve problems. Face up to their own advantages or shortcomings, dare to bear the person.
9. Make a little progress every day
High EQ people make a little progress every day, when it comes to doing it, start to act from now on. Not to say nothing, to act is the guarantee of success. Every day, a little bit more progress, friends are more willing to help such people.
10. Remember the names of others
People with high EQ are good at remembering other people's names and doing them with their heart, so they can remember. Remember the names of others, others will be more willing to be close to you, and you will be friends, you will have more and more friends, have a good circle of friends.
6、 How to understand adversity and overcome adversity is the ability of "counter quotient".
This is Paul, a famous American scholar. Professor stozmin suggested that: IQ and EQ are important, but the success of life depends on the level of "anti quotient". Balzac, a French writer, said: "suffering is a stepping stone for genius, a wealth for the capable, and a abyss for the weak."
Adversity shows noble and evil, Adversity shows tenacity and fragility. The greatness of personality cannot be formed in mediocrity. Only after tempering and suffering can vision be inspired, vision will be open and soul will be sublimated. In other words: to eat the hardships that ordinary people can't eat, to do what ordinary people can't do, can we make a big stride to success than ordinary people. Will, knowledge, talent, soul often show the level of anti quotient in adversity.
7、 "Understanding business" is also called "spiritual business".
It is a person's ability to think about the nature of human and things. With understanding, we can drive our eyes to pursue meaning and value, and then innovate on the original basis. The connotation includes: to see the spiritual factors hidden behind things, to be invisible to the tangible, to turn experience into wisdom, to be able to handle and put things "up and down", so as to deal with the situation and adversity calmly.
Understanding business is a great wisdom of life, especially as entrepreneurs, we should learn two words: one is "tolerance", the other is "understanding". That is to say, we should be able to tolerate the inferior root of culture and the dark side of reality, so as to realize the essence of life and career. The influence of understanding and resilience on life is enormous.
If life is compared to a big tree, intelligence, EQ, anti quotient and understanding quotient are the main tasks of the tree.
8、 "Financial business" is the ability of people to finance, generally refers to the ability to benefit from investment.
This is by Robert, the US real estate and investment company. Dingqingqi and consultant Sharon. The first thing in the Book Poor Dad, rich dad, which is co-ordinated by Cai Hitler. They have come to the conclusion on how to treat money: don't be slaves to money, but let money serve us. It also includes how to make money value-added and benefit from investment. This is because of the difference in financial ability and the emergence of "poor dad and rich dad" life ending.
9、 "Health business"
Generally refers to: wisdom of health and ability to maintain health. This is proposed by Professor xiewazhen, Canadian medical doctor.
There are five elements for health business:
1. Self-care is to achieve the best health level through active exercise and healthy lifestyle;
2. Health knowledge and health knowledge are helpful to people to understand and apply health protection factors;
3. Lifestyle, generally refers to people's living habits, which is essential to health;
4. Health psychology, psychological influence physiology, psychology is an important part of health, and psychology, body and disease have two-way functions.
5. Life skills, generally refers to improving health level through reasonable diet and proper exercise.
Health is higher than wealth. Once people neglect the maintenance and investment of health for money, the consequence will be "the world knows the gods are good, but the fame and reputation can not be forgotten! Where are the ancient and modern general? A heap of grass is gone in the wasteland; The world knows the gods are good, only gold and silver can not forget! In the end, only hate to gather, and when you gather, your eyes are closed; The world knows the gods are good, only the good wife can not forget! On your birthday, you said kindness, and you died with others; The world knows the gods are good, only children and grandchildren can not forget! The infatuated parents have been many in the past, who saw filial piety and grandchildren.
If we compare life to a big tree, the "financial business" and "health business" are the leaves of the trees and the fruit of the trees.