Written in the front: Xiaobian found that many websites and official account have a problem: excessive transmission and insufficient content. One workshop would like to tell you that we are doing the attitude of public communication. Every article carefully prepared hopes to have a touch on you, accumulate positive changes, and become a better person with one workshop team. Once upon a time, Lao Yu's speech became the source of my motivation. I read every speech and Book crazily. Later, looking at China partner, Tong Dawei said: Carnegie is a liar. Lao Yu is a Carnegie type "liar". Up to now, I still like a New Oriental saying: looking for hope in despair. Xiao Bian Jun shared his speech at Tsinghua University, hoping that everyone could find their own new hope.

The first dream was to make money. Psychological quality is trained in a sense. You need to know that in this world, if someone satirizes you, strikes you, or you feel very low, it is really a very normal thing. Don't care too much about what others think of you.
Some people will be particularly concerned about, for example, the magachun incident of Yunnan University more than a decade ago. The reason why Margaret cares is because he thinks his classmates bully him. One of the important reasons for bullying him is that he cares and becomes causal. He is especially afraid of failure. He plays cards with small movements and steals cards. The purpose of stealing cards is to win others. When he was found out that he did something very low, he scolded him. He felt particularly angry and did extreme things and killed all four students. Another student was spared. The student was particularly sensitive. He had just known the five students and felt that Marquis had an extreme tendency. He knew in particular that people with extreme tendencies could not be offended at will. He never satirized the attack on Margaret in his dorm. No matter how much low he did, he had a good relationship with him. When Marquis Maga was going to kill, he told the man to buy me a bag of instant noodles. Looking back, you can bear the friction between students, is for your future life to prepare for the best state. In this world, few people can see you and praise you every day. There are so many people who pay attention to you every day, want to criticize you every day, or want to see you look good. This is the necessity of human nature. What you have to do is how to evaluate these negative messages and mobilize your positive energy. This is the most important thing.
The phenomenon of "fighting for father" and "fighting for money" will be less and less.
I think there will be people who fight dad and money, but they are better than we were at that time. Because the original resources of our time were limited, and information was limited, and those who mastered the resources and mastered information would get more benefits. Now this era is good in the era of mobile Internet, all information is transparent, the world is really flat.
Because I am now doing venture capital, I have to see thousands of projects every year and invest in hundreds of projects. I gathered my friends around and set up a fund. Hundreds of projects, each of which has an average investment of about 5 million yuan. Most of the entrepreneurs in these projects are not official generation and rich generation 2, which may be 3% - 5%. We heard that the first generation of investment was that the second generation of the government and the second generation of the rich were very vigilant, and did not know whether they could develop sustainably. This is also a problem. Because of the special situation in China, social stratum and system are not open enough, and some people will take advantage of their privileges and resources, which can take a step ahead of us.

Intentional efforts + unintentional opportunities
I have a theory that any person's success, achievement or happiness in his life comes from his intentional efforts and unintentional opportunities. Life must be purposely set. Everyone comes to Tsinghua University, you must have achieved good results in middle school. You don't have to go to Tsinghua, but you have to go to the best famous university in China. Otherwise you won't come to Tsinghua so well. This kind of intentional effort, as long as your goal is correct, must insist. There may be failures in the middle, but persistence usually leads to better results.
I have several goals in my life, such as entering Peking University is not my intention to fight, but to go to university is to strive. The movie "Chinese partner" has been seen. The rural child in the middle asked his mother to ask him to take another year for examination, which happened to me. My goal was to go to Peking University or to leave the countryside. In our time, if we don't leave the countryside, it is a dead road. I have been fighting for three years to leave the countryside.
The goal of Peking University is beyond expectation. I wanted to take an ordinary university and move my residence from the countryside to the city. You may not reach your goals after you try, and sometimes you may exceed your goals. There is only one possibility that all of this comes, that you have to work hard.
I was able to stand in Peking University later and become the best teacher of Peking University vocabulary. It was closely related to my own memorizing words in the hospital. The first one I have ever done after I come out is GRG vocabulary class. Try hard, I think it will be good.
But there are times when you try to work hard and not necessarily achieve your goals. For example, I worked hard for three years to go abroad and was refused by the American embassy for one and a half years. I didn't call it, "the American people need me" in the middle of the movie. I'm talking about intentional effort, plus unintentional opportunities. Because society is changing, the times are changing, the relationship between people is changing. Some of these changes are predictable, some are unpredictable. Unexpected things may bring you, but there are opportunities.
I was punished in Peking University, which was a failure for me. The unexpected opportunity that this thing brings is the birth of New Oriental. There must be a loss in life. Between one gain and one loss, you must try to grasp it, not you can get it when you lie in bed. My personal feeling is that the efforts of life are necessary for your life richness.

Elites are not egoists.
I don't think it's good for a person to think about self-interest all the time. If you don't care about the interests of others, your own world will become smaller and smaller. The heart is made of flesh. Think about it. If there is a person around you, no matter how smart he is, the smarter he is, the more dangerous he is, and he is selfish, you will stay away from him.
Among the friends around me, those who are smart and especially smart, I generally don't regard them as friends. I can tell who is smart, smart and selfish. On the surface, I can deal with it, but I won't be fooled. I am also the advocate of altruism. I hope I can bring more happiness and help to the people around me. I think it's good to do this. Your world will grow. For a simple example, there are many friends who ask me to do things. Because at this point, social resources are relatively abundant. A lot of people are children who want to go to school, need guidance, and will come to me. I spend 1-2 hours a day dealing with things like this. Sometimes it's boring. Later, I felt that it was a matter for you and an irreplaceable event for the family. I'm going to find a way to help.
And then I found out it wasn't a waste of time. When something happens to me, or New Oriental. A lot of things are that you call to tell me if you can help me solve such a problem within a reasonable range. Generally speaking, the other party will say, Mr. Yu, don't worry, your business is my business. Through this exchange, your world becomes wider and wider. When others know that you are a very selfish person, you will appear only when you are good, and there will be nothing new if you are not good. If you ask someone else to do something, you won't help them. I later found out that helping others is helping myself. There is no problem with your shrewdness and your self-development, but in the process of self-development, you must pay attention to the feelings of others and help others. It must be good for the width and height of our life.
Entrepreneurs need the feelings of home and country
I think a selfish person who only cares about his own interests, no matter how successful you are, can't be called an elite. In Chinese society, the real new elite is defined as the person who can not only grow up by himself, but also help the social progress. Society is not only about China, but also about the world. It is the mission of our generation to have people with family and country feelings, including the exploration of China's system reform, economic development and cultural progress.
What is the feeling of home and country? The generation of intellectuals before the Qing government, including Sun Yat Sen, overthrew the majority of the Qing government, and the May 4th movement overthrew the old social system. In the period of the Republic of China before the Anti Japanese War, so many intellectuals explored every day what direction China should go, including Lu Xun and Hu Shi, whom we are very familiar with, and Zhu Ziqing, whom we like. After liberation, people who sacrificed their lives and families for the sake of truth, such as Gu Zhun, are real elites. Elites must have great responsibilities and responsibilities, and then combine with their own development.
From this point of view, it is difficult for all entrepreneurs in China to be elites, because most of them only focus on their own business growth. Now I also find a new atmosphere. Chinese entrepreneurs also like to worry about the country and the people. Of course, the essence of worrying about the country and the people is that many entrepreneurs worry about the safety of their enterprises. Because you are worried about your own enterprises, you will ask the state to formulate a series of policies and systems to ensure the healthy development of private enterprises. The improvement of these policies and systems will promote the development of Chinese enterprises. I think that's a good thing.